Archangel Zadkiel and the Angels of the Violet Ray

Archangel Zadkiel is known as the Angel of Transmutation and Freedom. Zadkiels name means “Righteousness of God”. He helps us to find love and acceptance in our hearts, as we willingly release lower vibrations and soar to a higher plane of being. This Archangel assists us in living our full potential from the higher vibration of compassion, understanding and acceptance.

SEVEN RAYS OF ENLIGHTENMENT

The Archangels serve on the seven rays of spiritual light which correspond to the light focused within the 7 chakras in Man. Archangel Zadkiel works on the seventh ray, the violet ray of purification and transformation. The energy of this ray is most strongly felt on Saturday. The angels of the seventh ray are associated with the seat of the soul chakra, which is situated at the top of the head.

The etheric retreat of Archangel Zadkiel is in Cuba in the Caribbean. Here Zadkiel (the energy of elevated unconditional love) and his twin flame Holy Amethyst (the energy of faith) shine their love over the earth from the Temple of Purification. Archangel Zadkiel and Amethyst assist humanity in finding freedom through tolerance and forgiveness. These Archangels carry the flame of liberty, joy, forgiveness, alchemy, transformation, justice, mercy and tolerance. These qualities help to liberate the soul and assist humanity in ascending to a higher level of consciousness.

WORKING WITH ARCHANGEL ZADKIEL AND THE ANGELS OF THE VIOLET RAY

The beautiful crystal amethyst is said to symbolize the violet ray. Holding or wearing this crystal can help align our thoughts and actions.
Archangel Zadkiel’s message to humanity is one of Love. He wants to help us evolve to a higher state of love. We can only reach this through forgiveness. When we ask Zadkiel for help, he willingly intercedes on our behalf with God/Goddess to transmute lower energies. This helps us to let go of fear, of restricting and limiting beliefs, pain, anger, frustration, resentment and negative thinking. Archangel Zadkiel helps us to transform fear into love. With this heart healing we can then experience the depth and fullness of life. Call on Archangel Zadkiel whenever you feel upset, and then visualize yourself in the violet flame of purification. Allow your negativity to be transformed and your troubles to dissolve and be replaced with tranquility and harmony.

INVOCATION

“Archangel Zadkiel please help me now. I ask that you assist me in releasing any feelings of unforgiveness towards myself or another that I may be holding onto. Please help me to replace these feelings with compassion and mercy. Please help me to see this situation from a higher perspective. I willingly surrender this situation to you, and know that All is well, perfect and complete. Thank you.”

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Archangel Michael and the Angels of the Blue Ray

The world of Angels is a world of LOVE. Angelic beings are here to protect, nurture and guide humanity. Angels work mainly on the Astral plane but once we open our hearts to them, we can feel their presence around us all the time.

Beyond the Angels are the Beings we call the Archangels. The Archangels tend to the larger arenas of human endeavor. The Seven Archangels most closely connected with helping us on Earth and with the evolution of the planet are:

Archangel Micheal
Archangel Jophiel
Archangel Gabriel
Archangel Raphael
Archangel Chamuel
Archangel Uriel
Archangel Zadkiel

Archangel Michael is probably the most powerful, notorious and revered angel in history, scripture and art. He is the master of all angels, a glorious warrior spirit. His name means “Who is like God” and he’s also called The Prince of Light. He is very large and holds a sword.

Michael, like all Angels is able to embody the pure form of God’s energy. He is very close to our consciousness at this time as mankind is evolving to higher levels of awareness.

Archangel Michael is a mighty Warrior of light, love and protection. A spiritual body-guard who can be called on in times of distress, fear and negativity. He is a peace-maker, and will bring Truth, Integrity and Power to all situations.

All we need to do is ask for his help. Angels honor the free-will of humans and will only intercede in our lives when we ask them to with a loving open heart. He is always ready with his host of blue lightning Angels to comfort us instantly.

Call upon the loving energy of Michael when:

You want to illuminate fear and negativity from your life.

He will shield and protect you against negative or psychic attack and astral debris that clings to our Energy fields.

Give us strength, determination and courage when we feel overwhelmed with life’s challenges.

He will help us go beyond our self-imposed blockages and clear our path of obstacles.

He calls us to speak our truth, re-claim our Power and live with purpose.

With his light you will feel more secure, confident and have renewed energy and Power.

SEVEN RAYS OF ENLIGHTENMENT

The Archangels serve on the seven rays of spiritual light which correspond to the light focussed within the 7 chakras in Man.

Archangel Michael works on the first ray, the blue ray of strength and protection. The energy of this ray is most strongly felt on Tuesdays. The Angels of the first ray are associated with the throat chakra.

The etheric retreat of Archangel Michael is over Banff and Lake Louise in Canada. Here Michael (the masculine energy of Power) and his twin flame Archera Faith (the feminine energy to sustain and nurture the power) shine their love over the Earth from the Temple of Faith and Protection.
 

WORKING WITH ARCHANGEL MICHAEL AND THE ANGELS OF THE BLUE RAY

Protective shield of Love and Light

As you awaken each morning, spend a few moments with Archangel Michael. Ask him to protect you and guide you so that your actions will be in alignment with your higher purpose. Ask him to envelop you in a white protective light to shield you from any negative people or situations you may encounter as you go about your day. Finally, see yourself experiencing a day filled with love, light and laughter, knowing that Archangel Michael is protecting you.

Always remember to thank the Angels for their love, protection, comfort and guidance.

Cutting the Cords that Bind

Whenever you feel drained, over-anxious or tired after spending time with someone who is especially needy and a constant complainer, or whose life is always filled with turmoil, drama and dysfunction, ask Archangel Michael to come in and cut all negative etheric cords that are draining your energy and joy.

Most of the time these people (often close friends and family) are unaware that they might be draining your energy.

Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths

Relax and begin to let go of any tension in your body.

Ask Archangel Michael to please cut all negative etheric cords of fear that are draining your energy and vitality.

Visualize him cutting all the cords, feel the release and your energy returning.

Ask him to clear all fear and negativity and fill you with white light. Send this white light to the people or person who was sapping your energy and visualize them whole, happy and complete.

When you feel whole and healed, thank Archangel Michael

Gently become aware of your breathing again and feel yourself in your body back in the room. When you are ready open your eyes.

Know that you have received healing from the Angels and that their love and light shines on whoever you brought into the meditation with you.

Archangel Michael brings the gifts of Love, Faith, Protection and Motivation. He calls us to speak our truth and stand in our Power.
 

AFFIRMATION: I am strong and protected by Archangel Michael.

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The Secret Science of Numerology

Numerology is the ancient secret science and psychology of numbers. Before the language of words, the language of numbers existed. The caveman would count the number of times the sun came up and therefore understand what a day meant.

Counting evolved into drawing a number of pictures to make sense of a primitive world and finally we evolved using speech and the written word to communicate further. Writing a number, a word or drawing a picture are all forms of symbolism and all represent something. Before the scientists used numbers just for ‘mathematics’, numbers were known to have meanings that belonged to the secret science of Numerology.

Pythagoras, the “Father of Number” lived in the 6th century, BC. He based his teachings upon Mathematics, Music and Astronomy, which he considered the “Triangular Foundation” of all the arts and sciences. He affirmed that mathematics could exist without the other two, but that NOTHING could exist without Number. He hoped for all mankind to know what the numbers mean, then every man would know himself and either love or tolerate his neighbor. Reading this paragraph for the first time, 15 years ago inspired me to learn more about the fascinating world of numbers.

I’ve since studied the numerological significance of numbers and the fascinating science of Numerology as a psychological self-investigation tool. Numerology informs and empowers us to become aware of the choices in our own lives by using the divination of our date of birth and name, as it is appears on our birth certificate. Your destiny is yours to create. Numerology is the original life-coaching tool that provides both an accurate and logical insight into YOU! I hope that this has wet your appetite to learn about the exciting secret science of Numerology!

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Opening Our Hearts to Healing

It is an important step on our spiritual journey to learn to listen to our hearts and to observe life as it is happening around us. Often we spend so much time in our “heads”, trying to find the right solution to every problem we are faced with, that we end up feeling more confused and fearful. It takes courage to let go and follow our hearts!

As a Numerologist, I truly believe in the importance of knowing oneself at a deep level. Only once we fully understand who we are; our needs, our dreams, our soul purpose and our talents, can we be effective in leading empowered lives. Knowing thyself, is the key to living a great life!

Learning to listen to our heart and to tune in to our heart’s desire is the first step in following our passion and living the life here on earth that we were meant to live. Within our hearts we carry our deepest longings and dreams. It is our individual responsibility to care about ourselves, our children and our planet enough so that we fully embrace our dreams.

Give yourself permission today, to take some quiet time for yourself. Spend time in Nature and connect with the feelings in your heart. Remember all your dreams and goals.

Write a “Life List” of all the things you long to experience. Make a commitment to start living your dream today!

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More About Numerology

Have you ever wondered what meanings may lurk beneath a number, perhaps one that keeps reappearing in your life? Since time immemorial humankind has wondered about the nature of number and how it relates to life. Numerologists believe that there are nine unique archetypes corresponding to nine cycles of development – the numbers 1 through 9. These numbers are also called Core Numbers or, Digital Root Numbers. Since Compound Numbers are merely combinations of these 9 Core Numbers, understanding the meaning of a number is predicated upon a thorough examination of these Roots. We shall now examine the evolution of these Root Numbers.

We begin with the Zero. This is the un-manifest where everything exists in potential. The Zero neither contains nor is contained by any number. It exists outside of any cycle. When the Zero is added to any number it symbolizes a perfection of that number’s meaning. Although 1 is the root of 10, 10 is not strictly synonymous with 1. This is because the addition of the Zero signifies a perfecting of the 1 influence, in effect moving out of the cycle of 1 through 9 and into a higher order – 10 through 19. When Zero is added to a number it tends to bring a universal responsibility to its root number. It is out of this formless perfection that some-thing appears.

Moving out of the formless realm of the Zero is some One thing which is whole, unified, and independent of the Zero. Our symbol for The Number One, 1, is a pillar. A phallic shape. The one is a masculine energy that strikes out on its own and pioneers what is new, original, and seething with energy. This One is the irreducible fact of consciousness, the eternal I AM.

Between the Zero and the One all other numbers have their being. As soon as the One appears it is placed in relation to the un-manifest Zero. For the One to be One at all it must be independent of something hence, the arising of The Number Two. The Two brings about a relationship, it holds within it the strength of the One but with a humbleness reflected in its character. The symbol itself, 2, reveals a man at prayer bowing to some greater power (1).

Once we recognize the arising of self and our relationship to something ‘higher’ (be it g-d, nature, principle or idea) we feel the need to express this understanding. The Number Three brings us into the social sphere. Out of the un-manifest Zero, 0, an independent form arises, 1, which brings us into an essential relation, 2, which we need to in some way express, 3. The character of the Three, 3, reflects this openness in its form. It is open at its top, receiving the higher influences, and open at its bottom, expressing those influences to others.

If what we express is to be of lasting value we must work to create a solid foundation – the Four. Many projects falter before reaching this point, making it to Three but never bridging the gap between expressing a higher ideal, 3, and embodying a higher ideal, 4. In order to maintain its balance the 4 must close off or limit the influence it is working with. The Number Four takes the ideas expressed by the Three and adds a self-imposed limitation, creating a stabile and enduring foundation.

After the discipline of the Four we encounter the change and activity of The Number Five, in effect testing the solidity of our foundation. The Five, 5, turns itself around and introduces freedom and adventure. It is open in both the front and the back. It is a point where decisions must be made, and true to its form, those decisions could radically alter the outcome.

The freedom introduced to the Four through the Five brings about a new balance symbolized in The Number Six. It simultaneously broadens the limits of the Four and places the necessary responsibility upon the five. The Six, 6, is pregnant with love. It is the number of family and social responsibility. The social responsibilities of the Six create a need to understand and gain insight, a need to find some way of placing experiences into a meaningful whole. The Number Seven questions and seeks answers to the grand riddle of life. It is a number of magical, mystical maturity. Its character, 7, may be likened to an old man bent over with age or perhaps, carrying a staff or lantern that casts its light into the darkness surrounding it. It is the number of introspection, planning, and inner searching. Through the control, insight and planning that emerges with the Seven we realize that we reap what we sow. The Number Eight becomes a carrier of dynamic power and the success of the seeds planted all the way back with the One. Its character, 8, reveals a perfect balance between the world of ideas and the world of action. It is closed off indicating the power that will bring ideas into fruition.

After the rewards bestowed by the Eight we realize we are reaching the end, The Number Nine. As we confront this ending the focus shifts from the material to the spiritual. Selfless service and universal ideas become paramount. The character of the Nine, 9, is very much like the Six, 6. Whereas the Six sends its love to the material world of family and friends, the Nine closes the cycle by returning its love and compassion to higher ideals. And again we are faced with the Zero. We may start a new cycle, beginning once again with One. It is possible we may continue our endeavor and raise the One to the relative perfection of the Ten, learning lessons of a higher order. In either case, we find everything between nothing (0) and something (1).

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History of Numerolgy

Numerology has been around for thousands of years. It is an ancient tradition that was studied in Egypt, Rome, Greece and China. The knowledge was kept secret and only passed onto a few who were initiated. The information was considered very powerful and sacred.

Pythagoras, the Greek philosopher and mathematician, contributed a great deal to the understanding of numerology. He was born in the 6th Centuary B.C on the island of Samos. Early on in life, Pythagoras was influenced by 3 great philosophers, PHEREKYDES, THALES and ANAXIMANDER, who all had a passion for mathematics, geometry, cosmology and astronomy.

Pythagoras went on to study in Egypt, Babylon and Greece. In about 518 B.C., Pythagoras went to southern Italy and founded a philosophical and religious school in Croton (now Crotone, situated on the eastern heel of Southern Italy).

As students entered the school, they were sworn to secrecy, and were not allowed to write anything down.

PYTHAGORAS CALLED HIS SYSTEM OF TEACHING “PHILOSOPHY”

WHICH HE DEFINED AS “THE LOVE OF TRUTH AND WISDOM.”

THE WORLD IS BUILT UPON THE POWER OF NUMBERS

Pythagoras is held in the highest regard as one of the greatest Mathematicians and Philosophers of all times.

What made Pythagoras extraordinary was his exceptional passion for knowledge, for truth and for the discovery of grace and harmony in all aspects of life.

Pythagoras lived to be almost a hundred years old, he will always be remembered for his geometry theorem known as the Pythagoras Theorem.

The practice of numerology has survived throughout the century’s and now in the 21st century, Numerology is being realized as a valuable tool for personal growth and development.

PYTHAGORAS SAID THERE WERE 3 TYPES OF MEN:

  • LOVERS OF WISDOM
  • LOVERS OF HONOR
  • LOVERS OF GAIN
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How to Develop a Grateful Mind: The Best Medicine There Is

There is one sure fire medicine that cures all difficulty and opens the way for your greatest good. It allows you to sleep well at night, wake up refreshed and filled with enthusiasm. Obstacles evaporate and wonderful possibilities appear. This medicine is abundantly available, has no side effects, can be taken in large or small doses regularly. You need no one to prescribe it and the more you take, the sweeter it is. The medicine is a good dose of gratitude, taken daily, at least three times a day.

For example, if you are having difficulty in your relationships, a strong dose of gratitude will help a lot. Depression and thankfulness cannot exist in the same mind at the same time. When you are continually aware of the good you are receiving, complaints, resentments and demands become a thing of the past.

Guests At A Banquet
Some would say that this world is like a banquet in which we are guests. However, instead of thoroughly enjoying the feast, we only focus upon what is wrong – we become upset that the meal will not last forever, criticize the cook, demand one dish and refuse all others, or enjoy only desert.

Many spend their time rejecting other guests, or pushing them around. Some refuse to eat the meal entirely and go to the corner to pout. Most have no idea who their host is, or why they’ve even been invited. They rarely think of offering thanks.

In order to live with joy and well-being, however, it is crucial to develop a grateful mind. Here are some simple steps to take. Each step is the best medicine.

Step 1: View Your Life As A Banquet – Enjoy The Feast
Realize that we have all been invited to this banquet to develop a grateful mind. We must learn to partake of all we are offered, discover why we’ve been invited, and most importantly, offer thanks.

Step 2: Realize Each Person At The Banquet Is Precious
Each person at this banquet is precious and has been invited for a reason. There is something unique that each guest has to bring, including you. Find out what it is. Enjoy each person fully.

If you do not know what to be grateful for, the question to ask is – what am I focusing on right now? Where is my attention?

Are you focusing upon all the problems and complaints, or are you aware of the endless gifts you receive? By taking your attention off the negative aspects of the relationship, you take energy and power away from these complaints and become open to see the good that’s available. As you take charge of your focus you take charge of your life.

Step 3: Take Time To Notice And Appreciate What You Are Receiving
Take time to notice and fully appreciate what is before you. Stop taking life for granted. As we develop a mind that is aware of the gifts it is receiving, the ability to give back grows naturally.

Step 4: Direct Communication
So many relationships flounder due to the feeling that individuals are not getting what they want. In many cases their partners have no idea what this is, or how to make them happy.

A wonderful way to deal with this is to ask directly for what you want. Ask without criticism or a hidden demand. It is also crucial to be able to say no. Saying no is not rejection. At times, saying no to others, is a way of saying yes to yourself.

Step 5:
When you give to receive something in return, this is not true giving. Some give to hold onto others, or to feel good about themselves. True giving asks nothing in return. It gives openly, no strings attached. True giving and receiving are one. When we give fully without wanting anything in return, we receive as much as we give. Burden, resentment and clinging falls away. There is no giver or receiver here, only an open heart.

In order to taste this kind of freedom, we need only let go of our demands, criticism and expectations, and simply become one with what is happening right now. Ultimately we will see that we must just open our hands if we want to be held.

Written by Dr. Brenda Shoshanna

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Overcoming Procrastination-How to Do What You Need to Do When You Don’t Feel Like

“Give up on yourself. Begin taking action now, while being neurotic or imperfect, or a procrastinator or unhealthy or lazy or any other label by which you inaccurately describe yourself. Go ahead and be the best imperfect person you can be and get started on those things you want to accomplish before you die.” – Shoma Morita, M.D.

When I was 22 years old I moved into a freshly painted one bedroom apartment in Alexandria, Virginia. It was my first “solo” experience — no roommates, no dog, no parents, no siblings. I could leave my dirty socks on the dining room table and stay up late playing my guitar. I reveled in the freedom of my solitude. About three weeks later, I was making myself dinner when I realized that I was completely out of dishes — all the plates and bowls were piled in the sink and had been waiting patiently, for quite some time, to be washed. So I did what any self-respecting young bachelor would do and raced over to the convenience store to buy paper plates.

Why those dishes hadn’t been washed is a bit mysterious given the well-functioning dishwasher that occupied a small space under the counter not far from the sink. I never did figure out how to get the dishwasher to reach over, grab the dishes, turn itself on and stack the plates neatly in the overhead cabinet. My role in the process, while essential, was limited. It didn’t require great strength or intelligence. The task was not particularly complex. The time required was minimal. So what kept me from taking action — from doing what needed to be done?

Ten years later I discovered the work of a Japanese psychiatrist that provided more than just insight into my struggles with procrastination. His work offered me a set of practical strategies for moving forward and taking action even when I didn’t feel like it.

Shoma Morita, M.D. (1874-1938) developed a model of psychology now known as Morita Therapy, which addresses the root causes of procrastination. Rooted in Zen and borrowing from an Eastern world view it is a stark contrast to the European-based mental health models we have become familiar with — approaches developed by Freud, Jung or Carl Rogers.

Patient: “I can’t seem to get myself to wash my dirty dishes.”

(Long pause)

Therapist: “So what I hear you saying is that you have a lot of dirty dishes sitting in the sink.”

Patient: “Uhh… that’s right.”

Therapist (looking pensive): “I see. How does that make you feel?”

One of the main tenets of Morita Therapy is that our internal experience (feelings and thoughts) is basically uncontrollable by our will. If we feel anxious about going for a job interview we can’t necessarily make ourselves feel relaxed and confident. If we experience doing our income taxes as frustrating and tedious, we can’t just snap our fingers and suddenly find the task satisfying and exciting. Most of the reasons for procrastination have to do with “internal barriers”, like fear, anxiety, indecision, perfectionism, etc. I call these barriers the Demons of Inaction. Traditional therapies generally suggest that you must conquer such demons through various strategies such as insight, self-talk, motivation, or increased self-esteem. But Morita Therapy offers a set of tools that is less about conquering and more about co-existing with. Rather than vanquishing your anxiety about the job interview, you simply take your anxiety along for the ride. Western therapy suggests that we must exorcise these demons before we can take action. Morita therapy recommends that we accept their presence, as unpleasant as that may be, and move forward anyway. If you can learn to do this, the demons lose much of their power and many of the causes of our inaction naturally dissolve into constructive effort.

Are you ready to take action?

If you’re ready to end your habit of procrastination, here are the next four steps:

1. Is there an important project or task about which you have been procrastinating?

2. What’s the next step (just identify the next step, even if it’s just a small task like making a phone call)?

3. When are you going to do it? (Identify a specific day and time — this is an appointment). Just make a 15 minute appointment — No More — just 15 minutes.

AND NOW THE EXCITING PART!

4. Accompanied by trepidation, fear, doubts, indecision, shyness, anxiety or any other demon who happens to show up — DO IT.

Taking action isn’t always pleasant. But actually the action is often much less painful than the anticipation of the action. And look at the payoff — over the course of a lifetime — a lot more accomplished and a lot less suffering. As Joan Baez said, “Action is the antidote to despair.”

Written by Gregg Krech

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How to Stay Calm When Life Isn’t

No matter what is happening in the world around us, it is never necessary to become caught in depression, fear or other negativity. We are not the victims of the world we see, but have the ability to mobilize ourselves and take charge of the way we respond. There are simple steps to take which when practiced easily turn our state of mind around.

Depression and fear can easily become addictive. The longer we stay in negative states of mind, the more difficult it can become to leave them. Our world grows smaller and we begin to develop catastrophic expectations. However, we have the power to take charge, and to choose actions and perceptions, which counteract negativity. It is the right and responsibility of every mature adult, to choose the responses they wish to make.

The tools offered in this article are part of a process of Centering. The more we practice these steps, the stronger we grow, and the more we can see negativity as something that has no power other than that which we give it.

Centering
The practice of Centering is universal. Many forms of exercise, martial arts and meditation are ways of achieving centering. They are ways of tapping into our fundamental strength and courage. In Zen we say, “Open the treasure house within.” This reminds us that each one of us is endowed with gifts, which are far greater than we currently realize.

While some of the Centering practices offered here are simple, they are very powerful. When practiced daily, they produce real change.

Attention
We are what we think about. Morita, a Japanese psychiatrist, the founder of Morita Therapy, states that all fear and neurosis comes from frozen attention that has gotten stuck and fixed upon recurring negative thoughts. The more we give attention to that which is destructive, the more strength it has to rule our lives. This can be counteracted rather easily.

Take back your attention. Do not let it be absorbed by all that is presented to it. The power of focus is the power of life. Spend time each day developing focus and concentration. Withdraw yourself from the external world for a period of time each day, and pull your attention back within.

Sit with a straight back, do not move and concentrate upon your breath. Let random thoughts come and go. Do not suppress them, but do not let them grab your attention either. At first you may be besieged by many thoughts and feelings. But, if you simply notice them and then return your attention to your breathing, these will soon die down. Count your breath from one to ten, then all over again. Do this for at least ten to fifteen minutes without moving. By not moving we are stopping what is called the monkey mind, the mind, which jumps from one thing to the next, and sabotages our lives. It is the monkey mind, which causes our sorrow and fear. But it cannot take over our lives, when we take our attention away from it.

This wonderful time spent with oneself is a way to attain balance, and perspective. It allows us to become rooted within. We develop a place within ourselves, which we can always return, for wisdom, strength and comfort. This time becomes a fortification against many storms, which naturally besiege us.

Rather than analyze and struggle with our problems, we simply ask -: What am I focusing on this moment? Am I present to the moment, to my breathing, or am I lost somewhere in a dream, Am I dwelling upon the pains and wrongs that have been done to me, or the terrible things that can happen someday?

Reality continually renews and confronts us with new tasks, challenges, opportunities and solutions, day after day. Are we in touch with this ever flowing reality? Are we focusing upon what is available now, what gifts we are receiving and what we can give to others, or are we dwelling upon difficulties?

Gratitude
As we do this faithfully, as our focus gradually changes, we become aware and grateful for all that we are receiving day by day. We also become aware of others, what they may need and what we have to give. And then we give it. We take action. Before long we are doing “deeds of worth”, actions that spring from the core of ourselves. The monkey mind is dismantled and passing emotions do not take center stage.

Another effect of Centering is that our attention now becomes placed on what we are doing, not necessarily upon the outcome of our deeds. Our joy and satisfaction comes from acting with a whole heart and mind. We can allow results and consequences to take care of themselves. When we are not absorbed by concern for outcomes, how much anxiety can we ever have?

The most powerful antidote to psychological suffering is an individual’s sense of self worth. When we are taking actions that are meaningful to us, self-respect develops naturally. As we become more and more occupied with that which is valuable, and life giving, our resourcefulness increase as does our sense of worth. We can then handle any difficult situation and stay calm in any storm. Living in this manner, life feels like a gift we are constantly receiving, and we become a gift to life as well.

Written by Dr. Shoshanna.

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Finding Inner Peace

Many of us want to attain a feeling of self-acceptance and contentment that will allow us to live to the fullest with minimal worry, stress, or fear. We are constantly looking for ways to feel good about who we are and what we do. Finding inner peace is important to every part of your life. It helps you perform better on your job and be more loving in your relationships. Perhaps the most important aspect of finding inner peace is that it helps you become kinder, gentler, and fairer to yourself.

One of the best methods to achieve inner peace is through daily mediation. Meditation is not just a way to relax it is also good for your mental health as well. Many psychological studies have shown that daily mediation actually increases your baseline mental abilities. It produces the highest stage of psychological development that scientists have been able to measure. Meditation allows you to become quieter and more stable inside.

Today, many companies all over the world are teaching mediation techniques to their employees, who in turn, are physically and mentally healthier and utilizing their health-insurance benefits less frequently.

A recent study reported in the New England Journal Of Medicine found that people who practice daily mediation undergo major surgery 76 percent less frequently and have to see a medical doctor 67 percent less often.

Beginning a daily mediation process is simple. Find a quite place where you won’t be disturbed. Sit in a comfortable chair and start focusing on your breathing, or on a word, or an image. If your attention wanders, gently dismiss the intruding thought. To get the most benefit it’s best to be able to devote at least fifteen minutes for meditation and to do it at the same time and place every day.

Movement, whether it’s jogging, aerobics, yoga, or dance, is another excellent way to achieve inner peace and create a strong inner core that protects us from the stressful events of daily life.

Yoga is a combination of physical and mental exercises that can lead to mental emotional and spiritual health. Yoga involves stretches, warm-ups, breathing exercises and a variety of classical and contemporary postures, and it’s good for people of all ages. Yoga exercises every muscle, joint, nerve and gland in the body and it works the entire psychophysical human structure.

Dance is a wonderful form of self-expression and it can help you untangle lingering knots of stress. Dance has often been called a “thinking person’s sport.” You have to concentrate to be good and that helps keep your mind off of other things. Learning new steps can be great for your sense of mastery and self-esteem. Many people who attend dance classes say that in addition to providing them with a good physical workout, dance adds a valuable dimension of peace to their lives.

For many people creative expression is not a part of their daily lives. Unfortunately, when you don’t allow yourself a forum for creative expression, you block a tremendous source of inner peace. Whether it is painting, sketching, sculpting, writing, or some other creative process, this form of expression can help you tap into the vast resources of inner calm that you otherwise might not have encountered.

Constructive living therapy or (CLT) is another excellent way to achieve inner peace. This simple strategy for living was developed in the 1920s by Japanese psychiatrist Shoma Morita. His strategy is for us to accept our feelings and do what we need to do despite the stresses of looking outward at the world around us and acting on our priorities, rather than examining our feelings and past.

Morita’s constructive living therapy has three main principles:

• Accept your feelings. Don’t fight how you are feeling or try to change it. If you are afraid, be afraid.

• Have goals but know what your purpose is for this hour, this day, this week, and this year.

• Do what needs to be done; take action. For example, don’t just think about your goal to start exercising, do it, now! While you’re exercising pay full attention to what you’re doing. Don’t think about the work you have to do at the office; concentrate on your contracting muscles and the pattern of your breathing.

While constructive living therapy won’t always give you peace of mind, it will show you a way of living in the present that will provide you with a sense of balance and accomplishment no matter how bad you feel from the curve balls life throws at you. It gives a flexible mind that realistically responds to whatever situation you are in, no matter what you are feeling.

Many people have found and studies have shown that volunteering can make dramatic improvements in physical and mental health. It can provide a rush of good feelings, reduce stress, release endorphins and provide a long-lasting sense of well being.

In fact, the Independent Sector, a Washington D.C. based national coalition of more than 550 nonprofit groups with volunteer programs found that many people go from being unfulfilled and frustrated with their lives to feeling their lives have taken on deeper significance through volunteering. People get great emotional and spiritual satisfaction from helping to change the world through volunteering.

When you achieve inner peace you can deal effectively with the daily grind, you can be more productive, content, and become a master of your everyday life. When you are the master of your everyday life, you have a tremendous sense of inner calm.

There are many ways to a achieve tranquility and inner peace. For each person, the road is different. The method you choose to follow to cultivate inner peace is not important. What is important is that you do it.

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