NLP stands for neuro-linguistic programming and it provides an insight into your subconscious mind to set up new, productive patterns of behavior. If you are keen on gaining control over your life, achieving more in your career, improving your relationships and finding more happiness in your life then NLP is a valuable resource. Many of the clients I have worked with notice an increase in their happiness level and a feeling that life is working out in their favor after receiving a NLP session.
Most people face significant challenges at some time in their life. Maybe it is a financial, health, relationship or a natural disaster that brings a time of chaos and uncertainty. Some people find life a constant struggle. Maybe you have periods in your life when you feel happy, healthy and confident, interchanged with periods of major downward spirals. Or maybe you are doing well on the outside, you have a good job, a nice family and you are healthy but on the inside you feel anxious, stressed or overwhelmed.
Neuro-linguistic programming helps you become aware of the areas in your life where you are limited and restricted; a NLP session can help you break through negative patterns that are a result of your life not working the way you want it to. NLP coaching can uncover unconscious choices made earlier on in life and effectively clear them so that you can move forward and actualize your goals and dreams and live a happier life.
When I ask my clients what is most important to them, the answer is usually to feel happier, to have closer bonds with friends and family. You are not meant to be solitary; you, like most people, probably function better and feel much happier when you are part of a community. When using NLP for happiness, rapport is one of the most important factors in establishing fulfilling relationships with the people around you.
Feelings of belonging and being valued help you feel relaxed, safe and able to communicate your true feelings and desires. Conversation, both verbal and non-verbal, form the bonds that you make with others. The interactions and gestures you exchange give you a feeling of connection and belonging. Ultimately, you want to feel appreciated, as if you are contributing to society and making this world a better place. Your connection with others significantly helps you in finding your niche in the world.
Building healthy and strong connections invites companionship and support. Diversity of the people in your circle can help you expand your own views on life and see life from a whole new perspective. Happy people have learnt the value of camaraderie and friendship. Happy people know that the bonds they form with others helps mold them into the person they want to be.
NLP is beyond being academic. For NLP to be most effective, the techniques need to be applied to your daily life. NLP concentrates on developing the personality, expanding awareness and providing you with knowledge beyond your years. Simply put, NLP aims to develop and nourish the well-being of an individual by increasing your ability to comprehend sensory raw data and your linguistic skills in lieu of verbal and non-verbal communication through programs that are designed to address immediate issues with regard to establishing rapport with the self and others.
NLP helps you gain instant rapport with others. With this, NLP also establishes a certain degree of confidence within you so that you can easily express yourself and your opinions about any issue. NLP sessions help you to be more expressive, so that you can make good choices, verbalize them and begin living your life through conscious creation. On a deeper level, NLP helps develop the previously suppressed parts of yourself that can now put you on the road to happiness and success.
Life unfolds from the inside out. Ken Keyes wrote “Your predictions and expectations are….self-fulfilling. Since your consciousness (thoughts) create your universe, all you have to do to change your world is to change your consciousness!”
You may believe you have developed a pattern of thinking and behavior that can not be broken. Your father did it. Your Grandfather did it. Now you have become the legacy bearer. Maybe your parents told you “Don’t make the same mistakes I made”.
NLP can help you break away from old and restricting patterns. NLP can help you tap into your unlimited potential and use your force and power to live a happy life.
From the first moment a client engages in NLP, they are amazed and at the same time motivated to further develop their NLP knowledge because of the primordial support it allows them. I have discovered that NLP often encourage my clients to learn and discover more about themselves leading them towards a much happier and meaningful life.
Happiness is a choice. Start making conscious positive choices today.